Everyone seemed to love my vibes newsletter, so I’m gonna start each issue with my favorite vibe for the week, yeah? This week it’s cool tones, here’s a collage from my IG saved folder:
photos via fashiiongonerouge, haleyreejones, khaite_ny
So this is going to sound really silly and it is: but this week I wasted $20 entering a bar/club I knew I would leave because I was so tired and wanted to go to bed. I paid the entry fee even though I didn’t want to and ended up turning around. I realize that more traumatic and expensive things can happen during a night out on the town so I am not sure why I was so mad at myself over a waste cover charge but I was.
It was pretty odd because I am not stingy. I don’t obsess over charges and I tend to have an abundance mentality, but the next morning I continued thinking about it with a pit in my stomach, I knew I would get over it but when? Was I upset about the money or upset that I didn’t do what I wanted to do? I declared to myself a thousand times that I was suddenly “over” it and moving on, but the feeling kept creeping back. Finally, I realized that I could assign a life lesson to the situation to help me accept that every little thing just might happen for a reason even if I don’t like it.
It’s like a little game, realizing that you aren’t making mistakes you’re just collecting data on how to move forward in life more successfully. What if they aren’t even good or bad? They’re just lessons! Personal truths!
I applied this to myself all weekend and I already started to feel freer than ever. Why obsess over the past when you could move forward with new confidence and clarity instead? And here’s the thing: I have absolutely already forgotten about the whole thing.
Can’t wait for all the lessons to come this week and cheers to moving on!
XX Chloe
The song recc of the week: